The Counselor Impostor

About Me: I’m your inner Counselor . . . now why don’t you go ahead and tell me how that made you feel?

I convince you that you can approach life and love as a clinical exercise, and don’t like the idea of actually participating in the beautiful and messy, emotionally charged experience that it really is.


I can give great advice to everyone else about what they need to be doing, but I don’t believe that others are capable of helping me out when I’m stuck and insist on either ignoring it or trying to chug through it alone.


I keep others at a distance and enjoy thinking about and rationalizing things more than living them, like your Authentic Soul wants for you. After all, things make a lot more sense when they can fit into definitions and boxes.

The First Thing People Usually Notice About Me

My great listening skills!

Pet Peeves

When people don’t ask for my advice

One Thing I couldn't Do Without

My self-help library


  • Optimistic

  • Insightful

  • Industrious

  • Enthusiastic

  • Confident

Favorite Things

Helping solve other people’s problems


  • Manipulative

  • Martyr-like

  • Possessive

  • Deep sense of loneliness

  • Fears intimacy

  • I value being in the company of others exactly as they are, today.

  • I cherish being in the moment with others to see what they can teach me as much as my own insights.

  • I love myself just the way I am, perceived imperfections and all.

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